Sunday, November 9, 2008
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Judge By Outlook???
Different people will have different style to dress themselves up, which we call that different fashion. In fact, actually can we really judge someone's personality or behavior based on their outlook?? For me, definitely NO, but a lot of people will still always judge someone good or bad based on their outlook.
As an example, those who dye their hair with some shinning colour such as light blue, light purple or so on, those people will always have a statement in their mind that these are bad peoples. Same as those guys who have a ear hole, some people especially the older generation will also think that guys who wear ear rings is abnormal; therefore they are bad as well. Actually, why girls wear ear ring is normal but why guys wear is abnormal??
In my opinion, how a person dress up or make up is just about his or her interest and also sense of fashion. Yes, through the way someone make up, we can actually know that they are fashionable or not, but definitely not judging their personality. The only possible way to judge someone's personality or behavior can only be a deep communication which helps us to understand that person more. As a result, communication will always the best way to know someone rather than the outlook itself.
Posted By: KokChin
As an example, those who dye their hair with some shinning colour such as light blue, light purple or so on, those people will always have a statement in their mind that these are bad peoples. Same as those guys who have a ear hole, some people especially the older generation will also think that guys who wear ear rings is abnormal; therefore they are bad as well. Actually, why girls wear ear ring is normal but why guys wear is abnormal??
In my opinion, how a person dress up or make up is just about his or her interest and also sense of fashion. Yes, through the way someone make up, we can actually know that they are fashionable or not, but definitely not judging their personality. The only possible way to judge someone's personality or behavior can only be a deep communication which helps us to understand that person more. As a result, communication will always the best way to know someone rather than the outlook itself.
Posted By: KokChin
Wrong Prediction
We, human will always have our very own thinking, but can we guarantee that what we think will always be right?? I am sure that no one in the world could guarantee this. However, we will still have our very own prediction on certain subject or situation, and most of the time will assume that our prediction will be right even though there is no any solid evidence to support our prediction.
I used to have a friend, we were really close as we always share our private stuff together and our common way to communicate with each other through cell phone messages because we can't always meet each other. Sadly, things have change now. Our relationship clearly turn bad compare to last time. We are still friend but we didn't really share our things anymore, so the topic between us is getting lesser and lesser.
This happened actually because the wrong prediction between both of us. As I say last time we always send message to each other, now it turned to be less. The wrong prediction i mean is that both of us thought the opposition don't really want to continue SMS. For me, I have such prediction because sometimes the way my friend reply is slow and the message is much more short compare to last time. This continue to be my prediction until few days before one of my friend told me about our relationship. She told me that actually the closed friend of mine also have the same prediction which thought I not willing to continue our message. I felt so regret and silly to have such prediction before that that affect our relationship.
The main point I wanted to bring out here is that sometimes the wrong prediction we have in our mind can really bring out various type of negative effects. Why not we try to communicate more by expressing what we think out rather than predicting by ourselves?? For me, communicating is definitely better than predicting now.
Posted By: KokChin
I used to have a friend, we were really close as we always share our private stuff together and our common way to communicate with each other through cell phone messages because we can't always meet each other. Sadly, things have change now. Our relationship clearly turn bad compare to last time. We are still friend but we didn't really share our things anymore, so the topic between us is getting lesser and lesser.
This happened actually because the wrong prediction between both of us. As I say last time we always send message to each other, now it turned to be less. The wrong prediction i mean is that both of us thought the opposition don't really want to continue SMS. For me, I have such prediction because sometimes the way my friend reply is slow and the message is much more short compare to last time. This continue to be my prediction until few days before one of my friend told me about our relationship. She told me that actually the closed friend of mine also have the same prediction which thought I not willing to continue our message. I felt so regret and silly to have such prediction before that that affect our relationship.
The main point I wanted to bring out here is that sometimes the wrong prediction we have in our mind can really bring out various type of negative effects. Why not we try to communicate more by expressing what we think out rather than predicting by ourselves?? For me, communicating is definitely better than predicting now.
Posted By: KokChin
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