It might just kill someone

XOXO Its Phoebe here, your sources to understand 'human' around you.

Amy, was a 16 years old girl with the weight of 80 kg. She started to gain her weight when she was 12 during UPSR because of stress. She was being tease for 5 years in secondary school just because of her weight. Its all small matters for her, but things changed when she meet a guy. She felt in love to the guy and decide to confess. She knew that he wont be liking such girl but she just wanna give it a try. However, that guy rejected her and said that she's ugly, fat...all kinds of words that people usually tease her. She felt insulted. Next day, Amy's mom found her commit suicide in her bathroom.

Sean, a boy who eat any food contains cheese. So,one day,as usual, he went to a cafeteria and ordered a marble cheese cake. Later at night, he had a serious stomachache and was sent to hospital by his family. After one day of body checked, he was being told by the doctor that its food poison. Since then, he'll vomit whenever he taste,see,smell,even just talk about it in a conversation.

These 2 are real life examples of perception. Yea, PERCEPTION. Do not underestimate this word!

Just like Amy, that guy was being affect by others opinion. Others used to tease Amy, and if others know that he's dating her, he's done! That's why he reject Amy. Yet, he can choose to be polite to her. He don't have to be so cruel to her. He can reject her in a more polite way. Instead of doing that, he choose the harsh way, and it brings with a girl's life.

We tend to make judgments on others by our own. These judgments are not 100% true, but others do believe on what we said. No one realize that the judgments we made might just ruin one's life. We,as human, we have brain okay?! Its can function well! Try to think yourself and not just believe on something based on listen to some judgments made by others. You might felt that the judgment you made is true, but it might be false too.

We are influenced by what is most obvious.
When Amy die, we tend to blame her for so stupid,foolish, irresponsible for her life...but we seldom find out the reason she committed suicide! Perhaps, that guy and the others who tease her, at least equally responsible.

Things happened not just because of one's fault.