Sunday, September 21, 2008

No Communication No Friends

As everyone knows that we, humans are definitely won't be surviving without food and water. but I am sure everyone knows that these are not our only basic needs. Actually, the one that I am going to emphasize here is FRIENDS.

Besides our family member, friends will actually be the one closest yo us. Although there are no statement stating that we can't survive without friends, i can tell u very surely that our life won't be happy and will be really lonely. Hey guys, don't forget that every couple starts from the relationship of friends. Therefore, there is actually no way for us to be in love if we don't have a single friend. Of course, we don't make friends just because we want to fall in love.

So, how we make friends? Communicate is the solution right? I really don't think that two individual standing at there and looking at each others can develop a friendship. At least they have to introduce themselves and ask some questions about the other side as a basic understanding of each one, later on they will have to communicate more to understand each other more so that their friendship could be improved as time passes, by then only they could share their private stuff together as it will be really pressure if we keep everything with our own. With some trustful friends around, at least we could express some of it out to release some of our tension and get some different opinions from them.

This actually shows how communication help to start up a friendship and improve a friendship, even when we are sharing our things we need to communicate as others could hardly totally understand of what we are thinking if we ourselves don't make any response, no matter how close we are. Therefore, with communication, friends available, and life will be brighten up; without communication, friends unavailable, and life will be bored and lonely.

Posted By: KokChin

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